Why Questions give the Best Advice

Are you getting the wrong answers?  Are you listening to the wrong voice?  If you are listening to somebody else, then perhaps you are. I was coaching some girls in volleyball once, and saw one of them making an error.  Now, I could have gone up and told her what to do, and that might have done the trick – but I wanted her to learn how to solve her own problems, so that she could get a better understanding of the game. Instead of correcting her, I asked her questions to help her self-correct. Unfortunately, my efforts were foiled.